Are love letters dead?
It begins by building anticipation of the big night. Do something special with a hand written love letter. Have it be hand-written, beautifully wrapped, and sprayed with a great scent that will trigger their romantic side. You can throw in a gift like a cupcake or stuffed animal for bonus points. You can add a sense of humor by writing the letter as if you’re shipping off to war, or whatever the plot was in the last romantic movie you watched together.
A final treat
With a little preparation, you can take their evening from perfect to unforgettable. If you can sneak a thoughtful gift, something that will remind them of the date they are about to go on, onto their pillow just before you head out on your date. This can be done when you pick them up, tell them you need to use the washroom before you leave and instead, sneak the trinket onto their pillow. When the night is over, and they think things couldn’t get any more romantic, you charm them one last time even when you’re not around.
Show up with a puppy
Most of the time a man will show up with flowers for the woman he’s about to go on a date with. Keep it unique, give her a stuffed teddy bear instead, or show up with a puppy. Something that’s sweet and unique, that will stand out from all the other gifts that people have given. Something that’s uniquely you, even if it’s a little quirky, can make your date memorable. Something like beats, why beats? Because they remind you of her, something that’s beautiful and sweet. Then she’ll be reminded of your date every time she looks at them on her kitchen counter.
Relive the first date
This is where your memory and the details will get you the most points on your date. Relive your first date, an anniversary night out of town, or the one where you proposed. Does she have a much loved movie or book? You could also revive a date from the movie. Make their dreams come true, that’s what makes you stand out.
Have a surprise ready throughout the evening
You could have a few surprises ready throughout the evening, this will just up the ante for all dates to come. Having an inexpensive gift taped under the table, or one behind a tree. Multiple smaller gifts are much more memorable than one large one. Especially if you've built up the anticipation that a date out with you is just full of surprises.
Getting the help of others
On the topic of keeping things interesting and surprising, you could get others in on your date. Get the waiter to bring out your present along with dessert, or have a group of children bring her your gift in the park. With a little preparation and perhaps some bribery, your little efforts can make a big impression.
Utilizing the atmosphere
After dinner, people like to wind down with a casual walk or talk. Make the most out of this occasion by providing the proper atmosphere for the romance to settle in. Don’t just go home, or into a plain looking café, do it in the surroundings of the starlit sky, or great skyline view of the city. The best part is that it’s free. Just remember to bring a blanket to keep things warm.
Either way, you’ve got a date for next Sunday
Somewhere along the date make a bet with them. You know the one where if you're right they buy you dinner next time, but if they're right you buy them dinner? Either way, you've got a date for next Sunday. This can be very helpful in letting them know you're interested in a relationship with them and that you don't just view them as a date.
Open their eyes a little
There’s something about a new place, or doing a new activity that’s exciting and makes people feel alive. People get bored of doing the same old same old again and again. Even if they aren’t the adventurous type, go to new places in the city, or different cities altogether, and do something new. Be the one to stir up new life in your date. This is how you get identified as spontaneous, exciting, and fun. All of which are feelings you want associated with you when your date thinks about you or whatever new activity you did. Most of the time they don’t really care what you do, just as long as you’re together.
All the good movies have mystery and suspense
When they ask, “what are we doing next”? Or “where are we going”? Don’t let them know. Keep it a mystery, keep it a surprise. It’s the mystery that makes it exciting, utilize it. In their mundane 9-5 day in - day out job, you can be known as the one thing that stands out in their life.
Giving them options, helps them enjoy it more
Having a couple back-up plans is always a good idea, just don’t be apathetic when it comes to your plans for the evening as women don’t like passive decision makers. Having a couple of good options for your date to choose from can help them have a great evening. Your choices should be clear and opposite in nature. For example, you shouldn’t have hiking and cycling as two options, just in case your date is tired.
You could make it into a treasure hunt
Using post-it notes, people, or some creativity, you could make a treasure hunt out of your date. You can make it big and city-wide, or keep it low maintenance and make it neighbourhood wide. You could even keep it happening throughout the date in various venues.
Stay away from the usual
Making an impression means showing off all the sides of your character. People will choose someone who has various different traits to their character oppose to someone who has just a few really strong traits. This means variety is important in the events you have planned on your date. Start off with a nature hike in the afternoon to show off you sporty and fun side, then take it to a private romantic dinner in the evening to show off your romantic and meaningful side. This is a sure win, keep showing off all your sides.
Give them something to remember you by
This is easily done now with all the iPhones around. Get someone to get a photo of the two of you on your date, and then make sure your date gets a copy of it. Photographs have a way of bringing back fond memories which plays an important role in the process of your date falling in love with you. Not only will they think of you more often, but when they do each daydream will be that much more memorable, another significant step in falling in love.
When it comes to great date ideas, the key is in using; originality, excitement, mystery, surprise, and a sense of romance, to make a date impressive. It ultimately comes down to living your life in the fullest, and sharing those moments with someone who happens to be in it. Get excited about life, and live it with your special someone.
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